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Gone were the times of dropping your handkerchief for the man you are attracting to pick it up. If you like someone, probably he looks magnificent or that you got captivated by his wit or just thought you might get along having similar preferences...YOU MAKE THE FIRST MOVE AND ASK HIM OUT. Not really a date .
This is today. Girls can ask a guy out. It is no big deal to toughen up your nerve and ask him to have coffee some place. For some it is a nice way to start as it is informal, it does not take long to finish a coffee in case you decided you don't really like him or get another one if you wish to know him a bit more. Suggesting to see a movie is not as good as it was before due to the impression of what happens in movie theaters nowadays and the unsafeness of our society. A dinner usually is subsequent to many other informal meetings, coffee breaks or eat outs because this is when you want to know him deeper, and that you have somehow reached the stage of liking him and wanting more of him. This is when you call it a date.
IT IS JUST THE MATTER OF HOW YOU SAY IT. The manner of speaking, the invite, the right weight of how you do it. Making it friendly and natural will give him the impression of "let's just try it". And you will not scare him off.
This is today. Girls can ask a guy out. It is no big deal to toughen up your nerve and ask him to have coffee some place. For some it is a nice way to start as it is informal, it does not take long to finish a coffee in case you decided you don't really like him or get another one if you wish to know him a bit more. Suggesting to see a movie is not as good as it was before due to the impression of what happens in movie theaters nowadays and the unsafeness of our society. A dinner usually is subsequent to many other informal meetings, coffee breaks or eat outs because this is when you want to know him deeper, and that you have somehow reached the stage of liking him and wanting more of him. This is when you call it a date.
IT IS JUST THE MATTER OF HOW YOU SAY IT. The manner of speaking, the invite, the right weight of how you do it. Making it friendly and natural will give him the impression of "let's just try it". And you will not scare him off.
2 comments:
so, have you made the first move already? ;) do blog about it..
@ scrib ~ hahaha not yet...but i will the moment i see someone worthy of a move. (wink!)
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