Have you noticed looking in the mirror more lately? Do you stop and think if you are still who you once were? Or maybe stops to think ifthere is something you can do to accentuate your charms? Why so? For who?
Women basically are more vain than men when it comes to their looks. They can be found more often doing things that can help manage their skin, buying things appropriate in protecting or treating their hair or doing this and that just so they would look better. When they look better, they feel better.
And they definitely feel better knowing they look beautiful in their better halves eyes. After 20 anniversaries or a few times giving birth, women feel less than the woman she was before. Insecurities starts to bud, self satisfaction have the tendency to plummet down to the ground and the confidence that he only had eyes for her is in question a lot of times.
They need words, they need action. Forget that you are both aging, love is endless. Disregard any thought of embarrassment, you've known each other for years. Do not let the fire die down, keep it burning. Make her feel beautiful, make her feel loved and life will continue as if it were just your first years.
"Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed."~Albert Einstein
I see you nodding your head there at first...then tries to re-read again after that last sentence!
It is true that we women just wouldn't concede when it comes to our man having no more hope to being changed. We try to believe ourselves the hero, that after all those "pasts" he had, we still think that we will be the last. That finally he will change. And so we end up getting hurt...but that's when we finally reach acceptance. I just hope that you are or will be amongst us who woke up before committing yourself to the life long bond of marriage.
And for you who are married...let that second sentence be a wake up call. Our men is hoping that we will not change. That we will still be the sweet, cuddly, loving, forgiving, romantic and thoughtful finance' he asked to marry. Let us try to be. Keep hoping that he will change for the benefit of peace in the home and for the rekindling of warmth. After all, it also benefits us. Because we can never be whole again with our better halves. Therefore, at least make up for what the other half lacks...and somehow you will feel whole. And happy.
"I declare to you that woman must not depend upon the protection of man, but must be taught to protect herself, and there I take my stand." ~ Susan B. AnthonyYes, women of this century are a lot stronger than those who lived before. They are more independent, more have the freedom from sexism. NONETHELESS, they are still the weaker sex...physically and emotionally. More especially when it comes to being foolishly in love or attached to a man.
This is proven true by example from a shocking involvement of a lot of women to a certain Hyden Kho, who I believe to be having some sort of personal goal of putting himself above others by the measure of women he conquers. Of women he played with to fall for his charms and use them sexually. He even made evidence of them through videos he took without their knowledge during the very private sexual intercourse. On the woman's end, it is truly humiliating to be broadcasted to the world that she has been played for a fool the same way that such indecency made public. YES THE VIDEOS WERE MADE PUBLIC! Nationwide, Countrywide or maybe it even reached far out to other countries already. And they are even not paid for it unlike those who do so for a living since it is without consent. They vary from being a celebrity, a model, a doctor...and God knows what else. Celebrity Ms. Katrina Halili is worthy of a salute for standing tall and fighting for her rights, being the most recent victim.
Hayden Kho, previously a doctor and a known boyfriend to a rich elder
celebrity doctor, Dra. Vicky Bello, had his way with women maybe with his charm and being not a bad looking man. He was also given such chance to interact with known women through his connection with the vanity doctor girlfriend for celebrities. I believe him to have some sort of psychological problem to need such self booster of collecting and using women. And he deserve more than the water spilling he got during a session, or the revoking of his license being a medical practitioner. More so, he deserve NOT the decision of the court of being free of charges!!!
BUT THEN THE THING IS: This is such
a concrete BEWARE to women!!! That these days, we should use our brains more over our heart. And the learning should not be fixated only on the sexual part but on every aspect of men knowing women's weaknesses. Yes, we actually should not be doing such lascivious act prior to saying the vows...but we should also be doubly aware that the world is not as it was before. Also, IT IS RARE TO FIND GENTLEMEN NOWADAYS, a rarer to find those with true intent. So please, learn to protect yourself!!!
Have you heard of this latest income generating scheme Filipino’s have wittingly started just recently? People have varying reactions to it…
Some got thrilled with it, and gave thumbs-up for this chance to put the wheels in motion in search of their better halves. It is a chance to meet a probable mate that probably is not passing by your way. Today, it’s not “waiting” any more but “searching”. And it’s not limited to the male population, because the ladies now have the same rights and incentives as men. Sexism has been shaken centuries ago.
Then again, there are always two opposing poles thus some do not find such scheme acceptable. I for one do not TOTALLY go with it, but not also against it. It’s just that the world have changed. You see more and more of the nightmares than fulfilled dreams. This puts the women more at risk to violence and harassment. Imagine meeting an unknown individual! It will not be disclosed to you if this certain man has murder instincts, if hereditarily insane or whatever negative trait anyone can have. There will be no guarantee in anyway that you will suit, nor any guarantee that you will not be harmed. So why put yourself at risk when you can meet possible mates through friends and relatives?
It’s up to you…because meeting your better half is for others, a chance; and for others, destiny. Some call it luck, some call it divine intervention. Do you need to push it with such schemes you have to pay for? Or maybe it is the only way since you don’t have such big a circle of friends; that this scheme provides you more choices and chance with who matches you.
What is your view on this?
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