We see more and more single parents nowadays, more so, single moms. No matter the reason for it, it always is the kid that is greatly affected. In their innocent minds during the first few years they get used to the fact that they live with their moms, either they see their dad's once in a while or not at all. But comes the knowledge that other kids have mommy's and daddy's together...then they start asking. They start wondering...where is my dad? Or why is he not staying whenever he comes home? Why is he just visiting?
And as they continue to have awareness of love between parents or between a man and a woman, they then crave to see love between their parents. In your case, you may not be feeling anything anymore for your kids dad...no more love perhaps...but don't ever let your kid see or feel that you feel something negative. In fact, they are hoping, though a mere pre-school, that you love each other.
I should know...that's what my daughter asked me a couple of times already. And she loves seeing us kiss. Hahaha!
And as they continue to have awareness of love between parents or between a man and a woman, they then crave to see love between their parents. In your case, you may not be feeling anything anymore for your kids dad...no more love perhaps...but don't ever let your kid see or feel that you feel something negative. In fact, they are hoping, though a mere pre-school, that you love each other.
I should know...that's what my daughter asked me a couple of times already. And she loves seeing us kiss. Hahaha!
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