"Jenny, I may not be a smart man, but I know what love is."
Forrest Gump
If you have seen this movie you will agree that Forrest Gump is not an ideal man. He is not the normal sort of guy one would fall in love with. But he is someone with a pure heart, with no malice in his mind, with no streak of evil,...still he is not someone to go gaga over with. He is not normal. He is borne with deficiencies. But fate made him live life. He had achievements that is unbelievable for him to achieve, blessing after blessing that made him reach unreachable stars.
Though almost next to impossible, the love of his life became his. He may not know a lot of things, but he knew he loved Jenny. Everything that is good has happened to him though he is not asking for it. What more of you who asks for it and is normal enough to know how to get it? Maybe its his quality of being SOMEONE WITH A PURE HEART that we have to have...what do you think?
"Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed."~Albert Einstein
I see you nodding your head there at first...then tries to re-read again after that last sentence!
It is true that we women just wouldn't concede when it comes to our man having no more hope to being changed. We try to believe ourselves the hero, that after all those "pasts" he had, we still think that we will be the last. That finally he will change. And so we end up getting hurt...but that's when we finally reach acceptance. I just hope that you are or will be amongst us who woke up before committing yourself to the life long bond of marriage.
And for you who are married...let that second sentence be a wake up call. Our men is hoping that we will not change. That we will still be the sweet, cuddly, loving, forgiving, romantic and thoughtful finance' he asked to marry. Let us try to be. Keep hoping that he will change for the benefit of peace in the home and for the rekindling of warmth. After all, it also benefits us. Because we can never be whole again with our better halves. Therefore, at least make up for what the other half lacks...and somehow you will feel whole. And happy.
More often than not, other people love our body more than we love it ourselves. We see too much of the imperfections that is actually invisible already to other eyes. We tend to overly criticize our shape (or lack of it), we hide beneath clothes a little discoloration that only deem noticeable with our insecurity, we crave so much to have perfect shapes of individuals who we even cannot tell if naturally born with it or achieved it only with technological advancement.
Loving your body will give you the freedom you need to have confidence thus provide you with the beauty that fades with insecurity. You will find joy in expressing how you feel, you will experience climax-y feelings without the worry that your better half do not find you attractive or beautiful with or without clothes on, you will have self worth that will ooze out the beauty inside that most people look for far better than physical attributes...
LOVE YOUR BODY TO LOVE YOURSELF...
AND LOVE YOURSELF FOR OTHERS TO LOVE YOU MORE
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